What place does a dream/vision have in one's life/relationships?
While dreams and goals are important and allow people to motivate themselves, focusing too much on just one hope can lead to disappointment when expectations meet reality.
Every. Single. Time.
In The Great Gatsby, Gatsby's desire to be with Daisy drives him to become a self-made millionaire; however, it also causes him to be severely let down when he actually meets Daisy and his expectations of her collide with her actual self. Gatsby's goal of marrying Daisy is so strong that he manages to work his way up from being nothing to the talk of New York--Nick states that "it was testimony to the romantic speculation he inspired that there were whispers about him from those who had found little that it was necessary to whisper about in this world" (Fitzgerald 44), showing the immense respect and awe that the majority of the population holds for Gatsby. In addition, he is so important that he gets phone calls from Chicago, Detroit, and other major cities, all because of his dream of Daisy.
At the same time, though, this desire causes him to be disappointed when he actually meets Daisy; before the meeting, he is "pale" (Fitzgerald 84), with "dark signs of sleeplessness beneath his eyes" (Fitzgerald 84). After the meeting, Nick thinks that Daisy must have "tumbled short of his [Gatsby's] dreams" (Fitzgerald 95). By going five years without ever interacting with Daisy, Gatsby's hopes built up so high that Daisy could never have hoped to live up to them, resulting in Gatsby's despondent attitude. Gatsby's vision of being with Daisy, though motivating him, ultimately resulted in his demise, showing that people should go after their dreams, but should not let the dreams govern them.




